First impression last.

When you are just a small child, I am sure somebody asked you what you wanted to be when you got older, not many children got an idea what they like to be. Somewhere between 2 years and later, your brain start reflects on what’s going on around you. Boys would have some idea, girls, on the other hand, have differents idea about their future.
What we see in young ages affect our future in a great deal. What I am talking about here, too much of a bad thing create bad things in the brain.
That experience in your childhood or any other unjustly misshaped trauma will be embedded in your memory forever and will manifest your adaptability to think right when certain happens in your life later on. Often we mimic adults behavior what is great, but what happened when that person does something bad, I’m sure a kid would be very impressed or hearing about that event whatever it was good or bad. We are all born with the same brain, but some newer use it for the right reason.
Some people are easy impressed and it doesn’t take much to influence them.
Parents want the best for their kids, but sometimes there is no money for Education because of other more important things have to be paid first.
Kids always find the wrong company when other things go pair shaped, like money for Education. They don’t like to be made fun off, so they skip school and start a bad future in the burglary business to get money for booze or cigaret and because it is easy they do it again.

Daily Prompt: Stubborn

Stubborn.

It was early morning and we needed to bee out the door in a specific time to make it to the Train station. Not many days we manage to do that, but today it was very special for us, when I say us I mean my little one and I.

Kids in a certain age can drive you up the wall at the best of time and this morning was one of them. It started off with a late night visit to the Hospital due to a sprained ankle my daughter received in kindergarten the day before and had coursed her a lot off grief doing the day.

I start early every day to be able to manage our day, that mean breakfast is a trail for the rest of the day, a stubborn kid does not go well and an ankle that hurt   make it even worse.for our start .

We manage to get to that special meeting, after all.

 

The why stage.?

Kid’s in a certain age can drive every parent’s up the wall “the why stage” it’s called.
They ask a lot of questions to satisfy a little brain that constantly develop.
Parent’s feel a lack of confidence in them self’s and what they have been told or read up about. Kid’s are very shrewd and know when constant discipline are not been implemented and fight back to live you struggling with your idea.
Some parents have strange outlook about bringing up children, but to get somewhere an agreement has to be sat in place before Rules are sorted out.
Things don’t get better when the kids get to be Teen’s, but if you can teach them right from wrong you have not failed totally.
Parent’s are not born to be perfect it takes blood sweat and lot’s of trying to develop that skill, sadly many don’t even get close to achieving that, other’s fail because they are too young to be parents.
“too young to be married too young to bee free, they are going to have a baby”5737942137_bf451b6807_m

Holiday as it should bee.

Holiday as it should bee.
When I was a kid, Holiday’s was something you looked forward to especially when you lived in the City what I did, no grass or place to play in.
I was one of the lucky one’s that was able to go to a place where there were farming and animals to play with, many of my friends have newer seen a cow or a pig or even know how to feed them, as I said I was one of the lucky ones that over the years had been in contact with many farm animals at the farm where I spend many of my holiday’s.
My grandparent’s had an old house next to the blacksmith that made horseshoes and thing for the farmers .Many mornings’s I woke up to hear the horses coming into the yard where they stood to the blacksmith had made the shoes for them and it was time to put them on, and that was amazing to see how he could fit them onto the curve of the horse’s without been kicked.
I was always short of money, they newer seem to last long, so I got a paper run what would tie me over for some time. Another little job I had was working at the local grocery shop in town pumping gas, that was a novelty in those day’s and when I’m saying pumping I mean pumping it was the only way to get gas into the car’s and it was hard work.In those days you got the whole shopping done at the same place and paid when you left at the counter in cash.
I feel sorry for so many kids’ today that doesn’t know how to play outside, sitting inside playing with electric gadget does not teach them how to get close to nature

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Capitalism/Poor

People behave the way they believe. Poor people who stay poor have poor thoughts and even unhealthy beliefs about wealth and the people who generate it. The poor person is preoccupied in his mind by how bad he has it and how good the wealthy have it. I always did say, someone may give you a bus ticket, but no one is going to just hand you a BMW. If you want a BMW, you are going to have to go and get it. Decide what you want and go after it. First thing first Education is very important but some people prefer not to better them selfs. In they believes Education was a waste of time and they leave school thinking they can pick it up later in life with finding work, with no Education it is not happening.
Education increases the competitive advantage of individuals but only so long as others don’t do the same thing. If everyone had a college degree, we would have millions of people with college degrees living in poverty. The availability of ‘better-paying jobs’ isn’t even close to the size of the population in need of them.
The ‘free market’ has not existed for over 100 years. It exists today primarily in the theories of university economists and others trying to defend against criticism of how capitalism actually works and what it does to millions of people’s lives.
The rich get richer and the poor get more poor.
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Holiday

Holiday as it should bee.
When I was a kid Holiday’s was something you looked forward to especially when you lived in the City like I did, no grass or places to play.
I was one of the lucky one’s that was able to go to a place where there was farming and lot’s of animals to look and play with if you weren’t scared of them, many of my friend’s have newer seen a cow or a pig or even know how to feed them, as I said I was one of the lucky ones that over the years had been in contact with many farm animals at the farm where I spend many of my holiday’s.
My grandparent’s had an old house next to the blacksmith that made horseshoes and other thing for the farmer’s , many morning’ I woke up to hear the horses coming into the yard where they stood to the blacksmith had made the shoes for them and it was time to put them on, and that was amazing to see how he could fit them onto the huff2012-03-17 11.46.32 of the horse’s without been kicked.
I was always short of money, they newer seem to last long, so I got myself and a friend a paper run what would tie me over for some time, another little job I had was working for the local grocery shop only one in town. Pumping gas was a novelty in those day’s and when I saying pumping I mean pumping it was the only way to get gas into the car’s and it was hard work, it was the only way you got the whole shopping done at the same place and paid when you left at the counter in cash.
I feel sorry for so many kid’s today that doesn’t know how to play outside, it all have to bee sitting inside playing with electric gadget that does not teach them how to get close to the nature

Discipline/love

Parent’s are not born to bee perfect it takes time to develop that skill, and many parent’s don’t make the cut because they newer got any help from home when it was needed. this is a quote from a song( To young to get married to young to be free they are going to have a baby).
Bringing up kids is not an easy task kids are very shrewd and know when consistent discipline are not in place and fight back to leave you struggling with your idea how to get around them. Some parent’s got different idea about bringing them up, relating back to their own upbringing it can be rather difficult sometimes to mix to kind of childhoods together to get the right combination that fit
Sorry to say this but you can not give them back and things get even more scary when the kids get to be teens. But if you can teach your kids what is right and wrong before they get to the state where common sense is not in their5737942137_bf451b6807_m vocabulary you have don a good job

Circumstances

Rules discipline and punishment go hand in hand with caring and guiding in a normal society of kids today. Newer the less there are rules sat in place by people that are not helping bring up kids in a normal way because the kids now got a tool there can use to get back on the parents or quardians with. Newer argue with a child they love it.
If you don’t get told what you are doing wrong how do you know the different, kids are the same they need to know from a young age. Set rules and newer punish a child in anger tell them why they get punised and hopefully after some time it will change for the better.
I found a Law from 1961 regarding parents control just comon sense really.
Every parent of a child and every person in the place of a parent of the child is justified in using force if the force used is reasonable in the circumstances and is for the purpose of—
preventing or minimising harm to the child or another person; or
preventing the child from engaging or continuing to engage in conduct that amounts to a criminal offence; or preventing the child from engaging or continuing to engage in offensive or disruptive behaviour; or performing the normal daily tasks that are incidental to good care and parenting. Nothing in subsection (1) or in any rule of common law justifies the use of force for the purpose of correction.
To avoid doubt, it is affirmed that the Police have the discretion not to prosecute complaints against a parent of a child or person in the place of a parent of a child in relation to an offence involving the use of force against a child, where the offence is considered to be so inconsequential that there is no public interest in proceeding with a prosecution.
This to me make sense we bring the kids up to be responsebell zitizens and they strive on it but The Government did change it in 2005 by the Green Party and now the parents get acused wrongly, stories been made up to get back at parents. Falls claims are been used by some kids, neighbours have doped neighbours in a really mess that could have been sorted before it got made into Law.Good on you Greenie the grass is not allways better on the other side at the fence.

Black is Black

5737935345_809ffdca3a_mMy neighbour just split-up for some reason very nice people nothing to do whit Domestic violence, just can not live together anymore.
Today I did see their little girl only 4 years old standing in the driveway looking utterly lost just pondering .
Is this breakup going to affect her in her ability later in life to choose what is right. splitting up is not always the right thing to do when you have children between you. To death do us apart sounds like and old cliche when things go Sauer and that is forgotten.
is it not better to try to work things out if possible, but sometimes that opportunity to solve is too late, forget about Counseling they only hear what’s been told to them to do, believe I have been true The Court system, to them it is only black and white.

First impression last

When you are just a small child, I am sure somebody asked you what you wanted to be when you got older, not many children had an idea what they like to be. Somewhere between 2 and later your brain start reflects what’s going on around you. Boys would have some idea, girls have differents idea about their future.
What we see when we are young affect our future in a great deal. What I am getting at, too much of a bad thing create bad things.5738495530_68494fd080