Kid’s in a certain age can drive every parent’s up the wall “the why stage” it’s called.
They ask a lot of questions to satisfy a little brain that constantly develop.
Parent’s feel a lack of confidence in them self’s and what they have been told or read up about. Kid’s are very shrewd and know when constant discipline are not been implemented and fight back to live you struggling with your idea.
Some parents have strange outlook about bringing up children, but to get somewhere an agreement has to be sat in place before Rules are sorted out.
Things don’t get better when the kids get to be Teen’s, but if you can teach them right from wrong you have not failed totally.
Parent’s are not born to be perfect it takes blood sweat and lot’s of trying to develop that skill, sadly many don’t even get close to achieving that, other’s fail because they are too young to be parents.
“too young to be married too young to bee free, they are going to have a baby”
Parent’s are not born to bee perfect it takes time to develop that skill, and many parent’s don’t make the cut because they newer got any help from home when it was needed. this is a quote from a song( To young to get married to young to be free they are going to have a baby).
Bringing up kids is not an easy task kids are very shrewd and know when consistent discipline are not in place and fight back to leave you struggling with your idea how to get around them. Some parent’s got different idea about bringing them up, relating back to their own upbringing it can be rather difficult sometimes to mix to kind of childhoods together to get the right combination that fit
Sorry to say this but you can not give them back and things get even more scary when the kids get to be teens. But if you can teach your kids what is right and wrong before they get to the state where common sense is not in their vocabulary you have don a good job
Rules discipline and punishment go hand in hand with caring and guiding in a normal society of kids today. Newer the less there are rules sat in place by people that are not helping bring up kids in a normal way because the kids now got a tool there can use to get back on the parents or quardians with. Newer argue with a child they love it.
If you don’t get told what you are doing wrong how do you know the different, kids are the same they need to know from a young age. Set rules and newer punish a child in anger tell them why they get punised and hopefully after some time it will change for the better.
I found a Law from 1961 regarding parents control just comon sense really.
Every parent of a child and every person in the place of a parent of the child is justified in using force if the force used is reasonable in the circumstances and is for the purpose of—
preventing or minimising harm to the child or another person; or
preventing the child from engaging or continuing to engage in conduct that amounts to a criminal offence; or preventing the child from engaging or continuing to engage in offensive or disruptive behaviour; or performing the normal daily tasks that are incidental to good care and parenting. Nothing in subsection (1) or in any rule of common law justifies the use of force for the purpose of correction.
To avoid doubt, it is affirmed that the Police have the discretion not to prosecute complaints against a parent of a child or person in the place of a parent of a child in relation to an offence involving the use of force against a child, where the offence is considered to be so inconsequential that there is no public interest in proceeding with a prosecution.
This to me make sense we bring the kids up to be responsebell zitizens and they strive on it but The Government did change it in 2005 by the Green Party and now the parents get acused wrongly, stories been made up to get back at parents. Falls claims are been used by some kids, neighbours have doped neighbours in a really mess that could have been sorted before it got made into Law.Good on you Greenie the grass is not allways better on the other side at the fence.