Circumstances

Rules discipline and punishment go hand in hand with caring and guiding in a normal society of kids today. Newer the less there are rules sat in place by people that are not helping bring up kids in a normal way because the kids now got a tool there can use to get back on the parents or quardians with. Newer argue with a child they love it.
If you don’t get told what you are doing wrong how do you know the different, kids are the same they need to know from a young age. Set rules and newer punish a child in anger tell them why they get punised and hopefully after some time it will change for the better.
I found a Law from 1961 regarding parents control just comon sense really.
Every parent of a child and every person in the place of a parent of the child is justified in using force if the force used is reasonable in the circumstances and is for the purpose of—
preventing or minimising harm to the child or another person; or
preventing the child from engaging or continuing to engage in conduct that amounts to a criminal offence; or preventing the child from engaging or continuing to engage in offensive or disruptive behaviour; or performing the normal daily tasks that are incidental to good care and parenting. Nothing in subsection (1) or in any rule of common law justifies the use of force for the purpose of correction.
To avoid doubt, it is affirmed that the Police have the discretion not to prosecute complaints against a parent of a child or person in the place of a parent of a child in relation to an offence involving the use of force against a child, where the offence is considered to be so inconsequential that there is no public interest in proceeding with a prosecution.
This to me make sense we bring the kids up to be responsebell zitizens and they strive on it but The Government did change it in 2005 by the Green Party and now the parents get acused wrongly, stories been made up to get back at parents. Falls claims are been used by some kids, neighbours have doped neighbours in a really mess that could have been sorted before it got made into Law.Good on you Greenie the grass is not allways better on the other side at the fence.

Love /Hate

Reporters from all News Papers are trying they best to keep up with all the bad things that happening around in the World today and especially what pictures concern about dead people that have been murdered in all kinds of ways. Reporters get hold of news and we all know bad news is better than good news, they have a sense of wanting to share all the details and pictures that goes with it, you can not watch TV or read a paper its all there for you to see, does it help the person that got brutally violated or beaten it does not.
It looks like it’s all too easy to take persons life and the criminals get away with it ewery time, they get time in jail and they are back out again doing the same thing. Some kids today don’t know what is right or wrong when they see the penalty that got handed down. We got a society of different people that have been brought up wrongly for many years of abuse and violent right true they childhood and now they are in a situation where abuse is the only thing they know how to use to get what they want.
Mentally scared people does not forget in a hurry and find it hard to relate to other people for help because they think they are not words helping they deserve what it coming to them and they stay in the relationship because they know if they live there is no return and there is nowhere to hide so they are stuck between love and hate, love for the guy they knew and hate for what he has become, loving someone that beat you is hard to do when it happening to often for no reason of yours.
Going to a shelter to bee safe is very devasting and if you are a private person that doesn’t need other people to pry into your private life would put any person of how bad your life is or was. Most women are home builders and dam proud of it so living home is another blow to their self-esteem.